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So bit of background - im 22 and going into my second year of university. I read more no job and most of my money comes from student loan and pregnant parents. I have not even told my mum yet. Pregnant from a hookup with no money so I feel like it https://wellnessways.info/best-affair-dating-site.php be sensible to abort but I am scared Pregnant will regret that.

How do you make a decision? Pros and cons list? Pick at random? Joking of course. I'm sorry you're hookup through this. Is there anyone in real life you can confide in and talk to link really know you.

This is a big decision with the potential to change your life forever, for better or worse so you really need to talk to people who care about you. The cons are very obvious, depending on your circumstances you may need to drop out of uni. Possibly no or limited involvement with the father or tied to someone you dont really know forever. The lack of stability and money is hard and raising a baby is incredibly tough in the best of times. The child may have additional needs which can make life hard. On the other side people can and do make it work and they have a wonderful child and thats amazing.

Whatever way you go there will probably be times you think about the decision or regret it so either way reach out to get therapy, you should be able to get some through your university. You matter in all this so please care for yourself. Https://wellnessways.info/dating-a-single-mother.php have confided in a close friend, the dad and my mum.

My mum and friend are extremely supportive for whatever I want to do.

My mum and dad are quite well off and she has stressed that they will help as much as they can so that I can finish uni if I do go through with it. I also have 4 siblings around. The thought of being a single mum is terrifying but I have always known I want children. I could have written this myself!

Apart from parents being wealthy part lol I'm now a single mum. The best thing that ever happened to me. How do you navigate the guilt of knowing your child will have no dad and wonder why? Well, not quite.

Pregnant from hookup - how do I make a decision?

We were 'together' although he lived like 2 hours away, we met online. I found out while hookup he was cheating on me with multiple girls and it all snowballed from there. As for my child having not having a dad, yes that bothered me massively, it sometimes still does. He does seem him briefly maybe once every 2 weeks. So my son hookup know who his father is, although that stable family unit which every mother wants for their child I had to accept I was never going to get, which was hard.

What gives me peace of mind is the knowledge that we all want the absolute best of the best pregnant everything for our children, but that's simply not possible. I love my son so much, I still live at home with my parents.

Do everything by myself, it's hard but I love it. I don't regret having him for a single second. Currently live with friends in a house but will pregnant somewhere for me and baby or move back in with parents for a while. Please create an account or log in to access all these features. Sharing posts outside of Mumsnet does not disclose your username. Hookup post Watch this thread Save thread. Start a new thread Flip thread Hide thread. My feed I'm on I'm watching I started. Advanced search Saved Active Unanswered threads. Customise Getting started FAQ's.

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