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Nsfw really rather not post about this. Huniepop really deserves a proper Girls Side spinoff, instead of the base game's lame lesbian mode. Get Ben Croshaw to voice Kyu's brother.
Maybe Reuben Langdon to voice a character. Doll were you able to find anything good? Because most of the games Dating keep finding are male centric.
Crossroads - A NSFW Visual Novel/Dating Sim
I've literraly scoured the adult content games, read all the descriptions and found very few games that says you can play as a hetero woman, dating not a dating sim, graphic novel, furry dressed as an animalor flat out sim animal or some other character that is not human.
It's hard to believe this genre doesn't exist on steam. Don't play morally degrading games. Your mental health will decline and your moral compass will be misaligned. Obviously not something that floats my boat so rather outside nsfw wheelhouse, but I will advise what I always do when you hit a brick wall finding games. A with dating disability someone might be sim for this genre, as it's unlikely to have speceific terms, but it's going to be your best staring point.
NSFW writer needed for Dating sim
Even sites like Metacritic or opencritic. Gamefaqs tends to list everything that's ever come out, within reason. I would echo the fact that you're probably best off starting with the Japanese market as they're going to possibly have the best chance of success. I wish I could offer better advice.