It's hard to date without hope. Download this for workbook to feel hopeful about love again in minutes. Nobody teaches us this stuff in school. If you are like most men, you were probably left to learn what it takes to dating and be with an intimate partner through depictions in movies, porn, and the media. It shouldn't be so hard to find an awesome girlfriend.

Figuring out how "men" connect with someone has been a messy process of trial and error, mistakes and hurt feelings, and by now you may be dating out a role you subconsciously learned to play, and not really showing up as yourself in the process. Men thought that being a good guy would be enough, but here you are, no longer a kid, still trying to have success in love and sex.

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The things I learned I can now take with me into the future. I now have a blueprint for navigating whatever issue there is- whether that's in a long term relationship or on a first date.

I have seen too many good men sell themselves short. I like to say I am changing the world one boyfriend at a time. I use my training as a Certified Life Coach and in Surrogate Partner Therapy to help men with some, little, or no romantic experience approach dating in a click to see more for way that gets them unstuck and on the path to love.

My clients are typically years old, coach a lot of love to give and looking for someone to share it with long term. Think love isn't meant for you?

Think love isn't meant for you?

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