Cultural differences, or is he just a terrible boyfriend? My boyfriend and I are in our 30's. He's dating Kosovan Albanian, who lived in Kosovo until he was about 30 or so. I'm a German. Him and his family have been living away from Kosovo for about 10 years. He lives with his family still. We live in the same city. He has a very basic command of German, dating I know a few bits of Albanian. We've been together about a year. I know his brothers and friends, but haven't met his parents. He talks of us having a albanian together in the next few years.
He says he loves this web page. His friends say red head in love with me sometimes I've sat with him and them in an Albanian cafe.
We are in touch most days via a messaging application. Why doesn't he spend time with me? I never get to the bottom of either of those questions. In response to the eating question, he always dating something akin to "of course we can", but we never do. From a man, a very naughty one when I used to be young and handsome. What a man falls "albanian" a girl he tends to want to be close, preferably very close Cultural issues can alter the way a relationship goes, but not to the level you're telling us.
One piece of advice - Dump him. Drop him if you value your self worth. If he wanted to be with you, he would make the effort instead of giving empty words. You can do better I'd imagine. Sorry if this offends anyone but its my personal opinion I am married to an Alb guy and his family don't accept me, which is fine, I have no room for narrow minded bigots I my life anyway. He socialises with cousins quite a bit, hates being told what to do by me, hates having to explain himself. He's selfish, immature and generally not very pleasant most of the time.
Why am I still married??? I ask myself this every day. I invested a lot of time, love and of course money into this and I hate to give up! And I do genuinely love him. I also believe he man mebut not enough and not in the same way. Its getting more and more apparent that I might have to call it a day. My hubby sits for hours in coffee shops, its their social thing.
I don't have a problem with that but he never consults with me when making plans, just pleases himself. He also always anxious and stressed out but given the circumstances surrounding our relationship and the fact he is yet again in the UK illegally I get that! It means nothing to meet their friends. My friend, an English girl also married to an Alb has lived in Albania with him at one point, knows all man family yet he constantly cheats taking the new bit on albanian side to meet friends and family!
My advice Find a fellow German!!! And run fast from this guy! Its unfair to tar them all with the same brush as I have met a very few nice decent, honest Alb men.
What is it like dating an Albanian man?
But in any relationship culture difference does cause problems. Beside this guy seems to have no time for you at all but plenty for his friends. You are certainly not his priority. Do better for yourself, don't waste your love on a man that cant give the same back to you. Good luck x.
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Ha I click here saw this post that I wrote many years ago. He has changed a lot over the years and after actually leaving him he changed his ways and is now much more respectfully we are now married in her 6yrs. Most of his alb friends are cheaters though. My advice.
I met my husband here ,in UK. Me stupid. We got married after a year of relationship. He got visa. After that he changed. Always just him him him. Very selfish and childish After 5 years of trying I gave up. Hope karma gonna back to him one day. And they not really want to work hard really. Even I myself as a Albanian male know it is a horrible idea to date a Man guy, my country has a lot of little boys but no manly men.
My German brother in law who I am proud to call my brother in law is a amazing man, he is extremely smart, he knows how to cook everything, he is very good with house work dating and my sister do everything together and he is a very good man.
He cherishes the fact that my sister has a amazing career and they come home together after work and cook man, clean together, paint their walls together. Every Albanian father I know tells their daughter to marry a foreign man who will love them and never betray them because even they know Albanian males are visit web page. Even tho I am a Albanian male, the boys that come out of my country are a big disappointment, there is no Albanian man.
Again I would appreciate it if you could read my reply to the girl who told her story. Thank you! It would mean a lot, I want to teach these people a lesson. Oh ,wish to know all of that before I met him Albanian know perfect how to lie and manipulate till they get what they need. Thank you for saying the true about albanian mans. I was recently in a"relationship"with one. And he does not want a serious relationship but we still get married if i want to help him with his documents.
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The one u had a baby with is his albanian Amet after a year by chance. Seramy1 Member 21 December No his name is not Amet and indon't have babies with him. Fiore Bella Member 14 March Omg is he's name Altin? AMS Member 02 December Yoginee ViP 02 December Hello AMS, Welcome to expat.
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