Dating a Goth Girl? I have a question which I hope can be answered. I am a 28 year old non-Goth but have a soft spot for girls who are Gothically inclined. It is not goth the aesthetic girl I like, but the personality and freedom of being able to stand out in a world where fitting in is often viewed as being of utmost importance.
Would a Goth Girl date a non-Goth? If so, what advice would you give to a non-Goth dating a Goth? Another query I have is how would you describe an 'average' Goth girl? Any information, advice, tips or opinions will be greatly received. Thank You Tony. To answer your questuions: 1 - Since I gay hookup know every goth girl alive and nor does anyone else, I don't think anyone can answer that.
Ask a girl out and see. Goth is a type of music not a religion. There is no reason why a goth girl wouldn't date you. Have you listened to any goth? Girl on youtube and look those bands up, they will lead you to more bands of a similar variety, and probably some of the "offshoots" musically speaking.
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Knowing about the music will if nothing else show to any goth ladies who interest you, that you have a basic knowledge of the sort of music the whole subculture is based around, and are not simply dating the clothing and outward appearance.
If you end up with a goth you will end up listening to that kind of music at some point on nights out or at homeso even if it's not your cup of tea you will have to learn to put up with it in some way and vice versa I say this because while nights out are not the be all and end all, you are going to BOTH have to learn to accomodate each other's tastes in music, clothing, film, culture, friends ect.
Originally Posted by honeythorn. Forget me not, as I do not forget you. Forget me not, since I remain around. Forget me not, goth keep my memory. Originally Posted by Timeless Rebellion. I can think of several, none of which pertain to her being goth. They really pertain more to the stereotypical idea that goths and goth don't mingle and that you have to have a special license to date a person who identify as goth.
Boatswain: That is all around which the entire goth subculture is based. Everything else usually can be labeled differently. But goth as a particular label refers to the music, that is all. You can't give general advice about dating goth girls any more than you can about dating non-goth girls.
Everyone is dating and unique. So really, treat everyone like an equal and you're getting there. Originally Posted by Boatswain. I am into Gothic stuff but not the music.
Is there a different label for goth Am I not welcome here? Originally Posted by tonyjames. Goth Girls are not all that freedom loving. Even if reading the thread, everyone has is critical and ocd ridden. She is probably the same. I hate people thinking I am some kind of bohemian or hippy, because I chose to wear different clothes and find it important to stick up for human rights. I not some freaking free ride or love mistress. I bet bohemians and hippies are not really that open-minded and other bullshit.
Find More Posts by Catch. Talk to her like you would any other girl. And whatever you do, don't try to change her. She is who she is, and if she chooses dating change then that's her choice.
Originally Posted by Catch. I honestly prefer at the least guys who are alternative. Y'know, punks and goths. I like tattoos quite a bit. All times are GMT Go here time now is PM. User Name.
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