Message for single women: Don't overlook dating blue-collar men. Blue-collar men can be the best mates of all. Some women not members of this group have told me they want to meet and fall in love with a successful white-collar guy. A doctor, dentist, lawyer or Fortune company CEO would fit the bill dating.
Some have even gone so far to say that man less of a profession would be settling for them. It seems with the shortage of blue as we climb the age ladder that this is collar short-sighted attitude. There are some pretty terrific guys out there who don't fall into the above categories. Many work in blue-collar jobs. But these women would never consider a blue-collar guy for a relationship. However, a man who works in a blue-collar job just might be a more suitable mate than one of those white-collar sharpies.
A man named Ryan pointed this out in a recent email: "I just came across an article you did about white-collar women and blue-collar men.
I know dating was a rather old article but being a 'blue-collar' guy, I found it very interesting. Ryan wrote, "I think the stereotypes people place on one another is a shame. I work in the Texas oilfields in Perryton, Texas. When I'm off from work, I live in Amarillo. I have actually dated mostly white-collar women.
And I do take an exception to a few things that the women blue in your column about blue-collar guys. Such as: 'working a low-level job.
And several of my very close friends would be considered white-collar guys. I have a friend who is an attorney.
And honestly, he collar a much bigger beer-drinking sports fan than I am. He hates nice restaurants and even hates this web page music more.
And, he isn't one of the smartest people I know. I enjoy classical music and even opera. Yes, I like country music more on a regular basis. Ryan is right. Just because someone is a lawyer, doctor, or high-level executive doesn't mean he would be a better mate than man guy working a blue-collar job. Men in white-collar professions might earn more money, although there's no guarantee of that, but that doesn't mean they treat women better or would be more suitable mates.
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Some women think, "Oh, blue man I met is a doctor, so he makes a lot of money, I want to marry him. Ryan added, "I think people tend to let their careers play way too much of a role in 'who' they are. I am of above average intelligence and could probably pursue just about any field I wish.
I have held several white-collar sales positions in my time. And while I was very good at it, I absolutely hated every minute of it. I just prefer what I do now.
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And over the years, I have https://wellnessways.info/dating-pics.php teachers, pharmaceutical reps, insurance agents, real estate agents, nurses, bankers etc. And, I made more money than almost everyone of them.
Not that here matters. The two PhDs I dated made less than half of what Collar did.
Ryan works two weeks in man row, and then he gets two weeks off. One would expect a guy with a schedule like that would play or pursue hobbies for the two weeks he's off. But not Ryan. Most of them told me that they could 'be themselves around me. So, I urge people to just find love where they can because it's rare enough without us letting our jobs--which most people hate--interfere.
I like this "blue-collar" guy's message. I wonder how many of the women in our group would pursue him if dating lived near them?